http://www.thedailytell.com/2009/05/philanthropic-effort-born-out-of-increase-in-domestic-violence/ Good news in trying times. Tue, 27 Sep 2011 15:19:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 http://www.thedailytell.com/2009/05/philanthropic-effort-born-out-of-increase-in-domestic-violence/comment-page-1/#comment-230 Annette L. Wheaton Wed, 27 May 2009 21:34:16 +0000 http://www.thedailytell.com/2009/05/philanthropic-effort-born-out-of-increase-in-domestic-violence/#comment-230 I am currently involved in a domestic violence situation. The only advice I get is to go to a shelter. I am not going to do that. I am buying a house with my common law husband. His name, my name and my mother's names are on the deed. My mother, who will be 85 in July, and only receives a few hundred dollars each month in Social Security and two of my children (19 and 22) are living with me while they attend our local college. I am a loan officer and have been able to work until about a month ago due to injuries my common law husband has caused. I am a mess. I would like to get him out of my life and turn him into authorities so that he would finally have to realize that there are consequences for actions you take. But right now if I do that, my family and I will end up on the street. I would like to be able to get a lower interest rate on my home so that I can afford to make the payment and the house does not go back to the bank. However, I cannot qualify for a refinance. If he goes to jail, right now the payment is so high, the house will definitely go into foreclosure. Do you have any suggestions? I'm desperate. I am currently involved in a domestic violence situation. The only advice I get is to go to a shelter. I am not going to do that. I am buying a house with my common law husband. His name, my name and my mother’s names are on the deed. My mother, who will be 85 in July, and only receives a few hundred dollars each month in Social Security and two of my children (19 and 22) are living with me while they attend our local college. I am a loan officer and have been able to work until about a month ago due to injuries my common law husband has caused. I am a mess. I would like to get him out of my life and turn him into authorities so that he would finally have to realize that there are consequences for actions you take. But right now if I do that, my family and I will end up on the street. I would like to be able to get a lower interest rate on my home so that I can afford to make the payment and the house does not go back to the bank. However, I cannot qualify for a refinance. If he goes to jail, right now the payment is so high, the house will definitely go into foreclosure. Do you have any suggestions? I’m desperate.

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